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"Animal lovers are a special breed of
humans, generous of spirit, full of empathy, perhaps a little
prone
to sentimentality and with hearts as big as a cloudless sky"
~ John Grogan
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Inspirational Messages |
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♥ I’m sorry to hear about your loss. That
must have taken a lot of soul searching to make the decision to
put Chase to sleep and I hope, in time, you are able to heal.
V.F.
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♥ I was saddened to
hear of the new of your kitten passing. I'm sorry that his
life was cut short, but glad that you were able to make his last
week more comfortable. Although he didn't make it, you
gave him a chance to fight. You also gave him the comfort
of companionship and warmth in his final days. Thank you
for giving the little guy a fighting chance. We appreciate
your compassion and we will remember his spirit. So sorry
for your loss. EK
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We were saddened to hear of Panther's passing. You
gave him companionship, comfort and warmth throughout his life. We will
remember his joyful spirit. We are so sorry for your loss."
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How to Support Someone that is Grieving the
Loss of a Pet |
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Listen Without
Judgment.
Today, pets play an important part in the lives of their owners and
their loss can be very painful. If you are a non-pet person, you may
think it is strange that your friend is expressing such deep
feelings for the loss of their pet. But if you take the time to
listen, you will most likely find that their pet was their companion
and friend.
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Acknowledge the
Loss.
Understand that the loss of a pet can be significant and should not
be disregarded as inconsequential. Acknowledging their loss and
extending your sympathy can bring comfort to your friend. Send a
card or give them a call to let them know you understand that this
is an important loss in their life.
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Don't be Afraid
to talk about the animal.
Sharing stories
about a beloved pet that has passed away is a normal and a
therapeutic way to heal. Allow your friend to talk about their
memories and don't be afraid to mention the animal's name or share
your own fond memories of the pet.
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Give a Hug.
A
simple hug can go a long way. When my cat Harley passed away a few
years ago, I remember becoming very emotional one morning. My niece,
who saw that I was upset, came up to me and gave me a generous hug.
I was grateful that she was willing to be there for me in a loving
way.
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What Not to Say to
Someone Who has Lost a Pet |
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Don't be sad, you can
always get another pet.
It is just a pet, why
are you so upset?
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I can't believe you spent so much money on treatment
for your pet.
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It has been a couple of weeks, why are you still
upset?
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Why would you spend money to have your pet cremated
and put in an Urn, the Vet can just take care of it for you for
free.
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And a special note to the non-pet lovers... we ask
you to remember that your friends that love the furry creatures of the
world may be experiencing a loss without their pet. Kind words and your
thoughtfulness during the grieving process are always appreciated.
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Related Articles |
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Loss of a Beloved Pet - How to Bring
Comfort to a Grieving Friend
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Grief Support Books
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Pet Sympathy Quotes & Poems |
The Rainbow Bridge
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge that
connects Heaven and Earth. It is called Rainbow Bridge because of its
many colors. On this side there are meadows, hills, and valleys with
lush green grass for all our special friends so they can run and play
together.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone
here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There is always plenty of food,
water, and sunshine and warm spring weather. The old and frail animals
are young again. Those who are maimed or abused are made whole again.
They play all day with each other.
There is only one thing missing. They are not with their special
person who loved them on Earth. Each day they run and play until the day
comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! The nose twitches!
The ears go up! The eyes stare brightly! And this one suddenly runs from
the group!
You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet, you
take him or her in your arms and embrace. Your face is kissed again and
again and again, and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting
pet.
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be
separated.
Author Unknown
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Grief Support Groups & Organizations for Loss of a
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